I searched hard and far and drew a blank. Ask this question to yourself… when was the last time you could actually change someone other than you? Chances are that you will also draw a blank.
You can change yourself, although it is difficult. But you can not change others.
Rejoice, because we are mostly occupied and pre-burdened (like pre-tensioned or pre-stressed) by our thoughts and efforts to change others.
When you stop changing others, suddenly you are 99.9 % free!
Chill and enjoy!